Why Failure is Our Friend

Written by Millionaire’s Digest Staff Member: Nina Medina

Founder & Owner of: The Happy Life 101

Millionaire’s Digest Staff Team, Author, Successful Living Writer


FAILURE. We don’t like it. We avoid it. We hate it.

People do not like failure because of 2 things- It hurts and  it makes us feel bad about ourselves.

However, if we will shift our paradigm, we will see that failure is our friend.

Like a true friend…

failure makes us aware where we need to improve.

Failure points out our mistakes and weak points. It lets us know our areas for improvement. Every time we fail, we always learn something new from it.

failure tells us that we need to do better.

Whenever we fail, how sure are we that we have given our 100% on it? It may be hard to admit, but in my case, I usually fail when I do not give my all. Failure tells us not to settle on mediocrity. We should always exert our best efforts in everything that  we do!

failure makes us stronger.

Most successful people experienced a lot of failures in their lives before becoming successful. What makes them different is how they managed to stand again and chose not to give up. As a quote says, “the one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one that never fell.

failure lets us realize how much we want something.

If we dream or desire something and we fail trying to achieve it, are we going to persevere and try again? or will we just forget about it?

If we want something that much, we’ll keep pushing ourselves towards it. But if we fail and let go of that dream immediately, then perhaps it really didn’t mean that much to us after all.

failure tells us if something is not for us.

After numerous attempts and giving it our best shots, but still end up being unsuccessful, then perhaps it is not really for us. This is the time to consider other options and focus on the other things that we can do and excel into. Failure tells us we should try to discover and utilize our other potentials.

Always remember, it is better to fail than to never have tried at all. We can always be more than our failures!:)


Article Credits: Nina Medina

Millionaire’s Digest Staff Team, Author

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  3. Asahela 3 years ago

    Fantastic post ?

  4. Aisha 3 years ago

    Great read! 🙂

  5. Nina 3 years ago

    Thank you Aisha! Feel free to visit my blog. You might find my other posts interesting too. 🙂

  6. BoochiCo 3 years ago

    Agree! Great post. 🙂

  7. writingworldcom 3 years ago

    Correct … awesome post.. really like it… agreed too…

  8. Nina 3 years ago

    Thank you! I’m glad that you like it! 🙂

  9. unmotivatedenthusiast 3 years ago

    Completely agree with the message!

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  11. Johnny D Mack 3 years ago

    Oh, Nina. I think there’s nothing you can share that I won’t end up enjoying. 🙂

  12. afedaibrahim 3 years ago

    Simple yet Amazing

  13. spardha.k 3 years ago

    A well written post

  14. wtibamosa 3 years ago

    Interesante Blog.

  15. MeTeen 3 years ago

    A very inspiring blog. This blog gave me a big boost on motivation, thank you!

    • Nina 3 years ago

      Thank you! 🙂 Your comment means a lot to me. I’m glad that you find it motivational. You can read more of my posts on my blog, thehappylife101.wordpress.com

  16. Its just like me,,

  17. ageofaquariusweb 3 years ago

    Truthful experience…memorable pal!

    • Nina 3 years ago

      Thank you! I appreciate you reading my post and commenting. 🙂

  18. colourfullifenotes 3 years ago

    Fantastic post, totally agree with you! 🙂

  19. lozzyp2000:) 3 years ago

    Thank you! Its very true and inspirational. 🙂 Cheers! I totally agree

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  21. terrywatsondesign 2 years ago

    Thank you for the great post

  22. Plectrumm 2 years ago

    “Fear of failure” keeps the majority of people from realizing their potential…

  23. sparklingpoems 2 years ago

    Agree with you..
    You have a wonderful blog..!!

  24. Prasenjeet Gautam 2 years ago

    Failure is the father of success. All success people were failure like USA President
    Late Mr Labraham Lincoln, Mr Steve Jobs. so many other names in the history who created History after continuous failure.

    Failure is just a beginning towards your goal. Failure is nothing is just, a mind set.

    Fight for your dream not for social image.

  25. Coach Nate 2 years ago

    Always a great reminder. I was in a team once where there culture had such a hard time embracing this. So my boss and I went out of our way when something would go wrong to 1) make light of it, because most often times it wasn’t a big issue; and 2) share with others what we learned. SLOWLY over time the mood shifted, but it wasn’t a ton. It was better than nothing and totally worth the effort though.

    • Nina 2 years ago

      Yes, embracing failure at looking at it as an opportunity for learning and improvement is not always easy for some people (especially when pride or ego is hurt), but you’re right- better than nothing. I’m sure they’ll get to appreciate their failures when they become more successful in the future. 🙂 Thank you for your generous comment! I enjoy it when you guys share your experiences with me. 🙂

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  27. Jeremy Mcgilvrey 2 years ago

    Inspirational post. Thank you for sharing it.

  28. alivetomotivate 2 years ago

    ALL true! Failures are stepping stones to SUCCESS!!

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  30. “failure tells us if something is not for us” I strongly disagree with this statement. There is no such thing as “something is not for us”. Humans were all biologically built the same. What separates us from one another are our thoughts. If you fail multiple times at something it only means you have not learned from your past failures because if you had learned you would see slight improvements and that would motivate you to try more! As the great Connor Mcgregor said “There is no such thing as talent”.

    • Nina 2 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I respect your opinion. Although humans are built biologically the same, not all of us have the same capabilities & abilities. Our intelligence & adaptability could be enhanced by environmental factors (i.e. education & experience) but are limited by our genetic make-up or by the genes we acquired from our parents. Thus, I don’t believe humans are the same on this aspect.

      • It is true that we inherit certain traits from our parents but that does not make certain people “limited”. Our genetic composition is constantly changing based how we develop ourselves. The ability to push ourselves beyond our abilities is what makes us human.

        • Nina 2 years ago

          I admire your positivity. Look at my point this way…many people wants to be a doctor but not all become a doctor. Why? Because it could be that they are not passing the course nomatter how many times they’ve taken it. Or some of them are necrophobic or even faints at just the sight of blood (innate), Or they don’t have the money to support their med school (outside factor).

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  32. Cody J. Elms 2 years ago

    I just wrote on this topic and then stumbled upon your post. Glad I did. What a read! 🙂

    • Author
      Nina 2 years ago

      Thank you! I’m sure you’ve got great ideas on your post too. ?

  33. Iriz Chan 2 years ago

    We need it as we grow wiser. Nice post!

  34. Jeremy Mcgilvrey 2 years ago

    One of the biggest mistakes we could ever make in life is being afraid of failure.

    Failure is great feedback. It tells us that the path or direction or strategy we chose was not the correct one. In turn, giving us the opportunity to course correct and begin anew.
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  35. rodealmeida16 2 years ago

    Reblogged this on fallenskiesblog.

  36. Prasenjeet Gautam 2 years ago

    1% people are the success because of their 99% failure.
    Failure teaches you, correct you, inspire you and the most important, motivate you to bring out the best of you.

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  38. Broken Crayons 2 years ago

    ?Rightly said! No great success was ever achieved without failure 🙂
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  39. dudimadge 2 years ago

    Failure is is not exactly what i would call my best friend but we can work together.

    • Author
      Nina 2 years ago

      As long as you have positive approach towards it, then it’s fine. ?

  40. banksbeatsofficial 2 years ago

    All entrepreneurs who want to become successful in their endeavors should learn and study this information

  41. oilyfarmgirl 2 years ago

    Very helpful, I’m learning and this is great insight!

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  43. stylenjamie 2 years ago

    Great!!

  44. janahpinku 2 years ago

    This is very inspiring! ?

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  45. Aaron Williamson 2 years ago

    nice its very true

  46. Convivial Supper 2 years ago

    I totally agree – learn more through failure than by success every time

  47. Sonyo Estavillo 2 years ago

    I totally agree that failure doesn’t make us stronger. Failure can be a great motivator if we can use it to propel us forward.

  48. bosssukky 2 years ago

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  49. AJEET SINGH DHRUV 2 years ago

    the one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one that never fell.” loved it ???

    • Author
      Nina 2 years ago

      I’m glad that you loved it! Thank you for taking the time to let me know! ?

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  52. mindelate 2 years ago

    Excellent read! And you are so right. Without failure we would never realise and reach our full potential.

  53. Janette 2 years ago

    Great post! Embracing failure is a learning process. From xperience it’s not easy. ?

  54. Failure makes us stronger…I like that

  55. thesilence2017 2 years ago

    Sure we can win through failure, thanks for sharing. God bless you. 🙂

    • Author
      Nina 2 years ago

      Thank you for taking the time to read and for your comment. God bless you too! ?

  56. stuckinrealityblog 2 years ago

    Amazing post????

  57. Louise 2 years ago

    So true, we shouldn’t be afraid of failure, instead people should learn from it and use it as their own weapon towards their dreams of success and I think we can both agree on that, by the way great post!

    • Author
      Nina 2 years ago

      Yes, we definitely agree! ? Thank you for taking the time to read my post!

  58. 1girlonejourney 2 years ago

    Amazing post.
    Very motivating!

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  59. Kevin Rodriguez 2 years ago

    Failure is a chance for growth. – Kevin @ Our Journey2Greatness

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