What Happens when Mistakes Aren’t Forgiven? How to Change the Image of Yourself to Another.

Written by Millionaire’s Digest Team Member: Nola Crow

Founder & Owner of: 4373 Fashion Lane

Millionaire’s Digest Team, Contributor, Beauty and Fashion Writer


We struggle so much in our daily lives. We aim to be great spouses, husbands, wives and children. However, what happens to your spirit, when your mistakes overshadow who you are as a person, in someone else’s eyes? So, I made a mistake! I spoke out of term and my words were received horribly. As a result, I was called heartless. Big deal right? Not if that person is a husband or wife.

In church or the Bible, it’s written and spoken that words have power. I foolishly assumed that my spouse knew me enough to, “know,” what my intentions were. I forgot that my past mistakes are forever sealed in his memory of Spouseville. What is Spouseville? Spouseville is a place spouses go to collect memories of past events and remind you of what was said.

What do I do, now? Cry. That’s exactly what I did. There is a lot of pressure on spouses to maintain the gatekeeper role: daily chores, maintaining love, family and passion in a marriage and today was not my day at all. I cried from the time I dropped our child off to camp, home, in the tub (for an hour) & finally after listening to Prince of repeat I was able to climb in the bed and take a nap.

  1. Say your sorry and state what your intentions were.
  2. Time heals all wounds- but it depends on the person affected.
  3. Pray on it.
  4. Remember what happened and make an effort to never allow it to happen again.

Remember, there is a chance the person will never forget or forgive you. Be prepared for that hard dose of reality. In our careers this same sentiment is possible. Be prepared for all reactions. I wasn’t! I’m human.

xoxo,

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Article Credits: Nola Crow

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    nolacrow 3 years ago

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  4. dasoulstriker 3 years ago

    Thank you for these words 🙂

  5. Cheryl Petersen 3 years ago

    To the point and helpful. We all make mistakes and I’ve learned when someone doesn’t forgive me, I must stand alone with God and move on in life.

  6. Aishwarya 3 years ago

    When someone doesn’t forgive, just move on! That’s the only way to get over it. Make peace in your own head about the facts and apologize with all your heart. What happens after that is not in your control and therefore there’s no point being worried about that!

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  8. Boho Ndongo 3 years ago

    This was a good read <3

  9. Aaron Williamson 3 years ago

    thats very true

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    I love this! Definitely something we all need to be Better with

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    In those same shoes right now

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