Written by Millionaire’s Digest Team Member: Carol Hind
Founder & Owner of: Purpose-Driven Achiever
Millionaire’s Digest Team, Contributor, Blogging, Books, Successful Living and Writing Writer
The Success Spectrum
I’m sure you will agree with me that there are all types of people in this world, so naturally there will be a reflection of these types amongst the followers and readers of this blog.
At one end of the spectrum there are those who are always positive-minded, who regularly walk the path of success. At the other end there are those who are habitually negative and struggle to achieve. And then there are those in the middle, people similar to King David (in the Bible), who was an incredibly capable and successful warrior, yet often experienced moments of deep despair.
The following is an edited extract from my writing journal in response to a quote, used as a writing exercise (so remember I am speaking to myself!). I have however, adapted it slightly to make it less personal and more applicable to followers and visitors of this blog.
Now to all you success-dreamers out there, if whilst reading you feel that the shoe fits, I’d encourage you to use this post as a motivational boost to yourself. In any event, I hope my post will be of help to someone.
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The Writing Prompt
Taking back control is a wonderfully empowering experience. When you beat your victim self, you feel a sense of victory and you know that anything is possible. The Writer’s Idea Book – Jack Heffron
The Journal Extract:
Indeed, it is a marvellous thing.
When you have lived so long as a victim, when you have lived so long with procrastination, when you have failed to be productive, to follow your dreams, to live life creatively, to explore your potential, to satisfy your creative urges, to express your talent—you have succumbed to the victim mentality.
You have allowed your weaknesses, your fears, your indecisions, and uncertainties, to take pre-eminence in your life, to dictate how you should live your life, to decide the tenor of your days, weeks, years, even decades.
But does its (victimhood) reward you for your faithfulness? Oh no, my dear, it does not!
It laughs in your face. It slaps you with the hand of mockery and scorn. It insults you. It declares you have been lazy, that you have lacked discipline. It points its accusatory finger at you, stating in no uncertain terms that you are a failure! You have wasted your life. You had such potential but you wasted opportunities. You failed to make opportunities. You did not seize the day.
Victimhood sends out its subliminal messages of disappointment and disapproval. It hints, you are a failure. You have achieved nothing and just as others decreed, you’ve amounted to nothing. You are nothing! You have wasted space and breath, and time and ability and gifts and calling. You ought to be ashamed of yourself!
And if you are not careful my dear aspirant one, you will pay heed to the voice of these crippling accusations and you will pay heed to your detriment.
You will believe it is too late and continue on your path of slothfulness and procrastination, or fear and indecision. You will justify your actions with the usual excuses. I do not have time. I was sabotaged. No one gave me a chance, or an opportunity. I did not know what to do, or how to do it. Excuses, excuses, excuses!
Do you think that those who actually use their abilities and gifts and talents don’t have the same tussles, or battles? Do you think you are a one-off? That no one experiences the same, or similar temptations as you face?
They do! But they wrestled and won. They fought off their demons. They overpowered their negative thoughts. They slayed their goliaths. And now they have creative endeavours to show for their efforts, for their hard-won battles. Now they stand in the glow and aura of success. They fought. They conquered. They won.
You can do it too. You can do it too dear reader. Will you choose the path of success? Will you choose self-discipline? Will you stop making excuses? Will you plan and execute? Will you seek the necessary help and support, apply yourself to the task and refuse to break your focus?
Get back into the game. Pick up the ball. Give despondency (or whatever it is that stops you from achieving), the boot. Give those thoughts and feelings and excuses their marching orders. Take authority. Pick up your sceptre and rule over these reasons and excuses.
Rule, dear reader rule! Rule success-dreamer, rule! Dictate your terms. Summon your inner power and strength. Rise up and be strong. Rise up and be decisive. Rise up and rule!
There is a Joseph spirit (the spirit of a ruler, the vision of a leader) inside of you. There is an Esther mind-set (the mind-set of a victorious overcomer) waiting to emerge. There is a successful dream-achiever waiting to be born.
Do you believe it? Will you walk that path, that journey towards success, or will you remain in your stagnant pool of mediocrity? Don’t deceive yourself. The power is in your hands!
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Article Credits: Carol Hind
Millionaire’s Digest Team, Contributor